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I think that whole store is a scam lol or just ULTRA expensive
Becky renting out the whole department store was such a huge flex lol.
Fr, imagine having a friend like that. Would be so cool.
BFF. I want one. And I'll take a sugar mama like Miss Nightfall. <3
You want whips hits over my baked cookies? Are they that bad?
A man of lust would prefer Fiona's whip hits, but a man of culture would choose your baked cookies & dishes, and die a happy man.
And a sigma male would want both...
I'm kidding lmao, I don't support polygamy
irl.
Yep definitely dies. LoL.
:Turns around to all the people now looking at this post. Breaking the fourth wall.: IT'S A TRAP!
Eh, personality-wise, Yor san is sweeter.
all of mine are poor as hell
T-T
Mr.Beast moment
It would solve a lot of my IRL problems of going shopping.
Reminded me of those kdramas lmaooo
From what I looked up, SpyxFamily is approximately set in the 1960s. Would $10K USD be enough to rent out a store like that for an afternoon?
fairly certain 10K USD would be enough to buy the store back in the 1960's....
And those dresses Anya wore in the end..where were they keeping it😂😂
Awe. Damien has a little crush.
he already had that since season 1 when anya apolgized to him
And Anya really doesn't have to change much about herself to win him over.
I'm curious, what works better: Changing oneself to attract others or just being yourself? Looking for real world examples.
Just being yourself. People are attracted to you for who you are, not to a fake persona you put up around them. I'm sure there are people who don't mind that, but most times just being yourself works far better in winning someone over.
I mean real world statistic. What happens if you put this 2 idioms against each other.
Let's break this down a bit, (I'm not directing this at you personally btw, but since you posed the question I'll use the "you" wording)....This would take volumes to answer by covering ever angle, so lets short-cut it a bit.....First of all, you need to genuinely know WHO you are, at least enough to understand how you come off in the presence of others...are you loud and obnoxious? Are you shy and quiet? Do you look down on others and act arrogant or selfish? etc.. etc.. you get the point...NEXT you'd need to consider who it is you'd be wanting to attract and have an idea of what kind of person meshes with them as well as what kind of person they are generally drawn to..the two aren't always the same thing.......There's more, but you get the idea...data is necessary in the fake persona scenario and technically there is no perfect persona for every person or group, so even the most polished one will not please everyone. Furthermore, it's necessary to take into account that some people are attracted to those that do not mesh well with themselves in certain circumstances, but do mesh in others, so you can't always formulate your persona along the lines of meshing perfectly either.....Lastly, also take a look inside yourself and figure out WHY you want to attract someone....What is the experience you are seeking by doing so? If it's being genuinely liked/loved/appreciated etc... then pulling a persona won't cut it anyways.....if you want power or influence over that person, it may be a viable possibility... Again, this massively simplified.....continued in next....
in other words, to thine own self be true.
Indeed, it is as you say, and may I remark on how rare it is to find one whom dost correctly quote The Bard. Commendable.
Continued from previous.......SO then let's look at the other possibility..."just being yourself".....again, with this it's important to honestly look at who and how you are around others with an unbiased view. Also, be aware that many people unconsciously change to some degree depending on who they are around. This wouldn't be a matter of being "fake" just that they react differently in an environment with certain people who's presence may stimulate a bit of a different emotional response.......If you are someone who has a truly repulsive attitude or personality, this is NOT referring to anything physical, just purely the actual personality you put forth, you may want to examine WHY you act the way you do and consider what about it others may find disagreeable. Remember, that no matter how much of a jerk you are or how kind you are, there is always someone one who will either love or hate you, so don't ever expect to please everyone all the time, it just won't work.
Over the course of an individual's life we change in temperament and personality, so don't expect you'll always stay the same either......But I'm digressing, if your "natural self" is someone who is "naturally disagreeable" more often than not, and your find people continually distancing themselves from you, while you wish to get closer to others, again, you may wish to consider why that is and if it matters enough to you to change it or accept it and if it's it's reasonable to do so, or not.
Again, waaayy over simplifying. .........So you see where I am going with this...it's not really an easy question to answer in short.....BUT I will say that in the long run, as long as YOU are happy with who you are and how you are, to the point of where you are confident and comfortable with yourself, overall, you will eventually and naturally end up attracting people who like you for who you are. Sure there will be plenty who come and go and find fault with you, but often times people find criticisms in others that they actually see in themselves, so you can't take everything personally either. Long story short...in the long run it's better to be yourself as over time, assuming you are willing to honestly look at and accept your strengths and shortcomings, you will know where and when you can shine and when you are better off leaving the spotlight to others, you'll see your own growth as you grow and mature and be able to better appreciate your own uniqueness and and at the same time the uniqueness of others so that you can help raise them up by your presence while doing the same for yourself.
Summation, it really depends on your end goal, and how far that carries, both have their pros and cons. In the long run though being yourself will allow for a greater natural strength and charisma that you can wield in way that will bring you greater happiness than continually wearing a fake person for every situation, just be yourself and own it.....Unless switching personas is who you are naturally like "Woid".....in which case you probably don't want to always attract people anyways. XD
Sasuga Fortune's Feline. You got my initial point correct, that being yourself is not always the answer. And being a "Void", makes being yourself a misconception altogether. :D
XD Actually, I wrote a whole 'nother huge set of reply paragraphs, but it was marked as spam, so you probably didn't see it. lol that's the problem with the commenting here, ya can't write volumes for the deep replies. That said, I was making a joke in the final paragraph referring to Yor calling Loid "Woid". But I was using that joke to reference that some people's natural selves genuinely are playing the social chameleon and therefore they actually would be that "fit everyone" type of guy, except this still poses problems when this person is entertaining opposing personalities at a get-together, etc.. can't be two people at once.
As for being a "null" personality, let me see if I can get that second paragraph set broken up and re-posted, and if that doesn't shed light on your inquiry, I'll attempt to tackle it in a different reply. ;)
So let's try this again....this is chunk one from the previous message set reply....Continued from previous.......SO then let's look at the other
possibility..."just being yourself".....again, with this it's important
to honestly look at who and how you are around others with an unbiased
view. Also, be aware that many people unconsciously change to some
degree depending on who they are around. This wouldn't be a matter of
being "fake" just that they react differently in an environment with
certain people who's presence may stimulate a bit of a different
emotional response.......If you are someone who has a truly repulsive
attitude or personality, this is NOT referring to anything physical,
just purely the actual personality you put forth, you may want to
examine WHY you act the way you do and consider what about it others may
find disagreeable. Remember, that no matter how much of a jerk you are
or how kind you are, there is always someone one who will either love or
hate you, so don't ever expect to please everyone all the time, it just
won't work.......
part 2 continued.....
Over the course of an individual's life we change in temperament and
personality, so don't expect you'll always stay the same either......But
I'm digressing, if your "natural self" is someone who is "naturally
disagreeable" more often than not, and your find people continually
distancing themselves from you, while you wish to get closer to others,
again, you may wish to consider why that is and if it matters enough to
you to change it or accept it and if it's it's reasonable to do so, or
not.
Again, waaayy over simplifying. .........So you see where I am
going with this...it's not really an easy question to answer in
short.....BUT I will say that in the long run, as long as YOU are happy
with who you are and how you are, to the point of where you are
confident and comfortable with yourself, overall, you will eventually
and naturally end up attracting people who like you for who you are.
Sure there will be plenty who come and go and find fault with you, but
often times people find criticisms in others that they actually see in
themselves, so you can't take everything personally either. Long story
short...in the long run it's better to be yourself as over time,
assuming you are willing to honestly look at and accept your strengths
and shortcomings, you will know where and when you can shine and when
you are better off leaving the spotlight to others, you'll see your own
growth as you grow and mature and be able to better appreciate your own
uniqueness and and at the same time the uniqueness of others so that you
can help raise them up by your presence while doing the same for
yourself.
Yeah, i only read 1st and last.
Loid is good example of cos-playing a Void persona, yet in this case he has a fallback persona of martyr for a good cause. A true void doesn't take sides nor does he have a goal. It's neutral, acts on reaction and will project you the persona (usually the 1 you wanna see), whenever you try observe it. Yet quickly vanishes into nothingness, as soon as you take your eyes away.
A different example would be cinematic video game franchise, where you as player get inserted into different characters, yet through the whole journey in no real correlation to any role's you've been given. (Ironically in the game Persona 4, through the whole game, the MC basically never changes - stays the Void till the end of the game, yet gets through his journey all those Persona "cards" - indicating he has filled the Void with different Personas.)
Woid would weally wuv dat.
XDXDXD HA! (I was going to reply in kind and realized this could get out of hand quickly. 😆 Therefore, I'll allow my single word expression to suffice.)
avoid the void?
if possible yes, but if you are a void i'd say fake it till you make it.
One of the greatest improvements to a girls looks is a happy smile. More than clothes, key-chains, or large wads of cash strapped to her purse... maybe.
not only girls, everyone who smiles is more attractive. The more genuine the better.
I'm not really sure. I'm going by the book here, so to speak. I ain't got any actual experience other than being crushed on by a girl who wasn't even my type (that didn't last long either coz I graduated uni and that was that).
It's case by case. Sometimes the first one will work, sometimes the other. Though, I'm sure we'd all prefer the second option. Disney's version of Aladdin is an example.
we'll you're going to have to add the 'rent the store' to the bill somewhere lol
Right? That's top expensive.
Reminds me of Rolexes
pretty much its like rending a Gucci store in Italy you need to have a prepared minimal of 5k and more to go shopping there ^_^
Nah Becky's family is wealthy 🤑 that's why she can afford expensive thighs
Franky is so easy. 😂
Yor’s drunken slur is way too cute! ❤️
Drunk Yor is best Yor
Franky: "Don't think money can solve everything!"
Grab the money
At least someone is honest.
Loid managed to avoid the biggest crisis in his career but for what cost? He got kicked in the chin lol
Saori Hayami playing drunk Yor was a blessing to my tired soul.
That sheep keychain is 700 USD? What a scam!